Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) is a neurodevelopmental disorder characterized by deficits in social behaviors and communication. In rodents and humans, prenatal exposure to antiepileptic valproic acid is associated with an increased risk for autistic-like characteristics. One potential treatment is oxytocin, a prosocial neuropeptide that can be delivered intranasally. However, the sex-specific effects of valproic acid exposure and intranasal oxytocin treatment on behavior have not been fully explored. Pregnant Long Evans rats were administered valproic acid (500 mg/kg) or saline midday on gestational day 12, and after weaning, male and female pups were assigned to control (saline–saline), valproic acid–saline, or valproic acid–oxytocin groups. Oxytocin (0.8 IU/kg) or saline was delivered intranasally 30–60 min before tests for anxiety-like behaviors (elevated plus maze), social interactions (sociability) and sociosexual behaviors (partner preference, 50 kHz vocalizations and scent marking). Prenatal exposure to valproic acid resulted in sex-specific differences in behavior. When compared to controls, valproic acid males showed enhanced anxiety-like behaviors in adolescence and fewer scent marks in adulthood, while valproic acid females showed reduced sexual (partner) preference as adults. Intranasal oxytocin was anxiolytic for valproic acid males, but moderately anxiogenic for valproic acid females, and in both sexes it surprisingly impaired social interactions in the sociability test. Furthermore, intranasal oxytocin failed to improve sociosexual deficits in valproic acid rats. These findings highlight the importance of conducting preclinical studies in both sexes, and suggest that oxytocin may be an effective treatment in animal models with heightened anxiety-like behaviors.